"You look like a writer..."
From Bristol. This is to showcase my artistic endevours.
I write poems on my Olympia Splendid 66
Being English and reading American College stories is interesting. Especially how four beers is considered an extreme amount in some of these stories.
Like, that’s an English student’s breakfast. When I was in uni we would drink that as a warm-up to pre-drinks, drink half a bottle of vodka, maybe more beer in a couple drinking games and then head out to a club.
Anonymous asked: How much blood is normal when you lose your virginity?
No idea. Still a virgin.
Any input, followers?
The idea that you have to lose blood during the first time is a myth. If you use toys regularly before sex, you shouldn’t bleed. If you do bleed, it should not be more than a little spotting. Anything else requires a hospital visit for internal problems.
I can always count on SF for sex education. xx
If I may chime in
You really shouldn’t bleed at all, because nothing should be tearing, because nothing should be hurting.
The urban legend that a woman’s first time is this awful, painful, bloody, embarrassing catastrophe is nothing more than that, a myth. It is a lie repeated by men and women enough times that it has become accepted as common knowledge and an unavoidable fact.
This is anything but true.
A woman’s first time should be just as enjoyable as it is for men. Unfortunately, the man usually skips or grossly abbreviates the foreplay, leaving her body tense and anxious, not to mention remaining somewhat dry down below. From here, he usually fumbles his way inside her, gallops away to his own finish in three minutes or less, and doesn’t pay any attention to her.
If he were to slow down, take a minute (or fifteen), and really get her good and ready, it’d be enjoyable for both of them, and not an awful black mark on her sexual record.
Stop treating women like sex objects. You might as well stick to masturbating until you are ready and willing to ensure your mutual enjoyment.
i think feminism is really great and important but some people on this website use it as an excuse to be absolute dickwads to boys and it seems like they are striving for dominance, not equality.
i am a 16 year old girl
People don’t listen, they just wait for their turn to talk.
— Chuck Palahniuk (via narobe)
Stop telling me “no, you don’t understand […]” and just tell me the fucking fact you know.